Dear door 3827,

What shall I do?

Enter your realm or say adieu?

Should I knock or just retreat?

As you creak open, doubts repeat.

Are you beckoning, am I unprepared?

Is this path meant for me, or should I be scared?

You reveal a glimpse of whats in store,

But uncertainty leaves me unsure.

Should I bring you flowers? Do you have tropical weather? Or heavy winter?

We dance a duet, you and I,

but what melody plays in your side?

Heavy metal or Bossa Nova?

Or perhaps silence in that space?

Beautiful door, silent and still.

I will return tomorrow, if time will.

As I return, you widen, but upside down.

A puzzling sight, leaving me frown.

What message hides in this curious scene?

If I make it it to tomorrow, maybe clarity will come my way.

Babi

xxx

In regards to decision making, this article from FT talks about the The Chimp Model, a psychological framework developed by psychiatrist Dr. Steve Peters.

It’s a simplified way of understanding the brain’s structure and how it influences behavior and decision-making.

According to the Chimp Model, the brain can be divided into three main parts:

  1. The Human Brain: This part represents the rational, logical, and analytical aspects of our thinking. It’s responsible for making decisions based on facts and evidence.
  2. The Chimp Brain: The “Chimp” represents the emotional and instinctive part of our brain. It operates on feelings, emotions, and impulses. The Chimp is quick to react and can often override the Human Brain’s rationality.
  3. The Computer Brain: This part of the brain stores beliefs, values, and automatic behaviors. It’s like a database that influences how we interpret and respond to situations.

The Chimp Model suggests that conflicts and irrational behaviors often arise when the Chimp Brain and the Human Brain are in conflict. Learning to manage the Chimp by understanding its triggers and employing techniques like mindfulness and cognitive behavioural therapy can lead to better decision-making and emotional regulation.

Overall, the Chimp Model provides a simple yet powerful framework for understanding and managing the complex interplay between emotions, instincts, and rational thinking in our daily lives.